So, about 3 months ago my father had a stroke, and was rendered unable to really take care of himself on his own anymore.
After a sibling debate it was decided my one sister that lives in [REDACTED] and her husband would take him, since they don't have any kids and my sister doesn't work. Things were fine for a bit but my father has become demented as a result of the stroke and gets very verbally abusive at times. The verbal abuse part wasn't obvious when we had the debate about it, and the sister that took him is the least mentally able to handle that of all of us, so of course couldn't cope with it.
My other sisters either have jobs or underage children still in the house, so it fell on me, having both the space and the available time.
I had to drive there to get him, and now I have a senile old man living with me I need to keep constant tabs on. Yay. Tbh it's pretty exhausting.