>>136041
Yes, it makes sense—it’s a common and frustrating phenomenon. This often happens because when you stop obsessing over something, you naturally give off less desperation or tension, which can ironically make you more attractive or aligned with the circumstances to get that thing.
When you no longer care, you might also become more relaxed and confident, unintentionally creating the conditions for what you wanted to come your way. But by the time it happens, you might have moved on emotionally, so it can feel ironic or even annoying. Life has a strange way of playing with timing like that.